The Blame Game

I find cheaters to be extremely creative - especially when they give, or well try to give reasoning to their actions. Heck some of them don’t even call themselves “cheaters”, in fact, route for an escape plan by saying its “the right thing to”.

Of course, they'll tell you that and then you find out they’ve actually been sleeping with someone else even before you left - and the girl was dumb enough to post things on her Tumblr to clarify this, but that’s beyond the point. I always believe that cheating is an option, but only one among many options. You have a choice, whether to fix a relationship, confront your partner or even confront yourself - yet you choose a simple option of “talking to someone else”, similar to running away from the problem as a resort to make yourself feel more fulfilling. Sometimes, cheaters build the biggest egos due to this - but seriously, who are you lying or manipulating to other than yourself?

A heart of a girl is fragile, and insecure - regardless of all the “women empowerment” shit you read these days. So tell me, what makes you think blaming them makes things even better? It’s you. You’re the problem. I’ve had enough of personal experience and friends blaming their partners to not be at par, but when asked whether they’ve tried to solve the solution - they come up with 1001 solvable excuses other than to cheat. I’ve had enough of people choosing to drag a third-party into the picture rather than to confront their partner, those who they say to be “the most important human being in their lives” at that time - if it was so important, why didn’t you prioritize that? I’ve had enough, of hearing excuse after excuse as to why people cheat because there is no excuse for your infedelity. There is never an acceptable excuse for you lying and disrespecting another human being. There is never, ever an excuse for you hurting someone else when you could have dodge it.

.. and you expect a victim to have closure at the nick of time you’re in bed, or on a beach holiday (which mind you, who even got you that holiday in the first place) with someone else? No, that’s not how the world works. As selfish as you are, how do you sleep at night knowing you’re simply a piece of shit?